1. Bring one gallon of water to a boil. After the water boils, add 1 tablespoon of salt. Keep the water at a simmer. 2. Meanwhile, in a large bowl whisk together the eggs, milk, herbs, nutmeg, salt and pepper. Gradually add enough flour to form a thick dough. All three cups may not be needed. 3. Place a colander or spaetzle-maker over the top of the pot of water. Press 1/3 to 1/4 of the spaetzle batter through the holes into the simmering water. Cook the spaetzle, stirring frequently, until the dumplings float to the top of the water, about 4 minutes. Remove the dumplings with a slotted spoon or shallow strainer into a bowl of ice water. Repeat the process with the remaining dough until it is all used. 4. In a large skillet melt the butter over medium-high heat until the foam subsides. Drain the spaetzle and add them to the pan, and saute, stirring frequently, until the spaetzle are golden. Season with salt and pepper, and a squeeze of lemon juice, if desired.