In a large saucepan bring the milk and water to a boil.Stir in the oats, cinnamon, ginger, salt, and cloves then lower the heat to medium low.Cook the oats for about 5 minutes or until most of the liquid is absorbed, stir occasionally.Stir in the pumpkin puree, maple syrup, butter molasses, and vanilla extract and cook for 1 minute.Remove from the heat and cover with a lid while you make the cream cheese frosting.In a small bowl whisk together all of the frosting ingredients until smooth.Drizzle or pipe the frosting onto two bowls of oatmeal.