In a bowl, mix together the quinoa, onion, mushrooms, chives, flour, red pepper flakes and salt. Mix until combined and thick.Add the lemon juice and non-dairy milk and mix thoroughly.Roll into small balls and put on a plate or tray and put in the refrigerator for 15 minutes.Heat the oil in a pan on medium heat and cook the tots until golden brown on both sides, about 5 minutes a side.